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#84: Burning the Ships

When he reached the New World, Cortez burned his ships. As a result his men were well motivated. Captain Ramius: The Hunt for Red October

“More options are better than fewer options.” My kids have heard me say that time after time. As a general rule, this statement is mostly true — but not always. Sometimes more options are far worse than fewer options. Sometimes there's great power in knowing only ONE option exists. Cortez grasped this truth, as did Captain Ramius. They used it as motivation to succeed.

Brinton JohnsSeptember 23, 2018Brinton JohnsComment

#83: Into the Great Unknown Known

So, sixteen years ago, Secretary of State Donald Rumsfeld famously said, “…there are known knowns; there are things we know we know. We also know there are known unknowns; that is to say that there are some things we do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns – the ones we don’t know we don’t know.”

While I think we can all agree that Rumsfeld’s language was a bit clumsy, I’ve come to find out he was actually capturing a fairly well-known analysis technique called the Johari window. Put very simply there are four things that are challenges:

Robert RoseSeptember 17, 2018Rob RoseComment

#82: Mother Teresa and Escaping the Gravitational Orbit of Interdependence

I remember it right after September 11th, 2001.

I remember it during the financial crisis of 2008-2009.

I remember it here in New York after Hurricane Sandy amidst the widespread ongoing power outages.

What I remember is that people were… really nice and caring with one another.

I remember people in our town of Pleasantville actively lending their generators to others in town who were still without power. Board games by candle light. We sorta hoped the power would never return.

It felt like… we were in it together.

Pip CoburnSeptember 10, 2018Pip CoburnComment

#81: The Fear of Failure

The past six months or so, I’ve been working with a client on the preparation for an immersive session with their global leadership team. They would like to change some behaviors of their team to become more adaptive to change. In their traditionally risk-averse environment, one of the key things they want to work on is dealing with failure. Up until now, failure is not an option in this organization. There is a fear of failure that is almost coded in their DNA. So the question arises: how do you change this attitude and create a culture that accepts failure as an opportunity to grow?

Jörgen Van der SlootSeptember 5, 2018Jörgen Van der SlootComment

#80: Comfy Cozy Summer Nights

A few weeks ago, my sisters and I spontaneously decided to hop on the NYC ferry to Rockaway Beach. It was our very first time on the ferry (some real New Yorkers we are!). After the beach and some very authentic New York deli sandwiches for dinner, we were a little sleepy. So we were a bit disgruntled when we got back to the ferry as the line to board wrapped around multiple blocks.

Amanda PosaSeptember 1, 2018Amanda PosaComment

#79: The Forever Problem

On the days I’m really sleep deprived everything seems impossible. White space is useless. My patience is low. I overreact.

And if I’m having a week or weeks with something that is physically wrong–an illness or an injury–my “impossible” stories get amplified. Especially in the case of illness, “What if I feel this way forever?” is a crushing thought that can spiral.

And then, if I’m lucky, I get better. Enough sleep or adjustment or medication or healing makes an ailment go away. My new “now” is replenished with possibility.

Sasha DichterAugust 28, 2018Sasha DichterComment

#78: Curiosity

Last year, 2017, in spring time, this little yellow finch used to come up to our bedroom window early every morning and tap on it. He never flew directly into it, he would just hover in front of it and tap. Of course, I quickly fell in love with him and wholeheartedly believed he wanted to be my friend. I was concerned he’d crash into the window one day and hurt himself and I was curious about what was making him do this, so I started googling and visited the local bird store in town.

Jaime PosaAugust 24, 2018Jaime PosaComment

#77: I Wouldn't Be Here Without You

I tell people movies make me cry all the time, but in reality only three movies actually make me cry:

1. Les Miserables (as everyone at Restore unfortunately found out one day)
2. Beginners (my all-time favorite movie)
3. Big Fish

Lauren CulbertsonAugust 16, 2018Lauren CulbertsonComment

#76: Kaizen Basking

Rowers talk about how, when the whole crew is in sync, the boat somehow lifts a few inches out of the water and magically seems to glide.

That moment is the payoff from the accumulated effort of years of training, focus and discipline, the prerequisites to that moment of synchronicity.

This can happen in our day-to-day as well. We put in analytical, emotional and financial effort to make something work just right, but still it’s not quite there yet.

Sasha DichterAugust 10, 2018Sasha DichterComment

#75: A Lifetime After The Cow Moo'd

Jaime Posa feels so so deeply.

Jaime Posa has a capacity to let me know myself… much better

Jaime creates a space with her first words that allows me to check in and quit rushing… to slow slow slow…

…down

…and then I decidedly settle in…

Jaime PosaAugust 7, 2018Jaime PosaComment

#74: Looking Within the Shadows

I wouldn’t consider myself an angry or aggressive or confrontational person. I don’t think any one would. But it’s interesting to think that some of the best changes or accomplishments took place in my life only after the presence of extreme anger. And there’s one incident in my life that stands out most, where a boiling internal anger led me to one of the biggest changes I had wanted to make for years and years, and which inspired a domino effect for many more.

Amanda PosaAugust 3, 2018Amanda PosaComment

#73: There Is No Spoon In Our Life

In the movie The Matrix, there’s a famous scene where Neo meets The Oracle. As he walks into her apartment, he sees a young boy bending a spoon with his mind. He’s fascinated. As he bends down and takes the spoon, the boy offers some advice:

“Do not try and bend the spoon. That’s impossible. Instead only try to realize the truth.”

Brynne ThompsonJuly 31, 2018Brynne ThompsonComment

#72: My Daughter the Brainiac

My daughter is working her way through a summer book of math and reading. She got to the end and found this Summer Brainiac Certificate on the last page. She was ecstatic.

Sasha DichterJuly 27, 2018Sasha DichterComment

#71: Introduction Circles and Terror

I met up with someone last week who wanted to talk in the context of personal growth.

He described himself as an introvert.

After 75 minutes, I think he was reconsidering if that was so.

Have you ever been in an introduction circle?

Pip CoburnJuly 24, 2018Pip CoburnComment

#70: Leading From the Middle

I don’t have a lot in common with my brother. I am a novelist and an at-large advertising creative director. He’s a stonemason and a recently retired New York City Firefighter. He’s a tall, physically imposing man and I am…not. When we discuss our professions his stories are invariably more interesting and rarely does a common theme emerge between us. However, near the end of his time on the FDNY he told me a story that, while radically different than anything I encountered in advertising, was surprisingly, finally, relatable.

James OthmerJuly 21, 2018Jim OthmerComment

#69: Encouragement

THIS INTENTIONALLY RUNS THROUGH the email below and the link is key to the video.

At times I have some non-typical thoughts. Yesterday a dear friend prefaced some words to me with “If you were a normal person I would have been surprised, but I know you aren’t normal.”

I am not.

I have some big ideas that are core to me that seem a tad out of place in most places.

Pip CoburnJuly 3, 2018Pip CoburnComment

#68: Believing It'll Happen

Not long ago, I went to a bouldering gym in New York with two friends. One of my favorite things about climbing is how communal it is, and on this particular day a group of people had gathered around one course, lining up to try it and cheering strangers on. It was very simple, consisting of only four holds – one large one near the group with a flat top, two smaller holds on the sides of it, and then a larger ledge straight above almost reaching the top of the wall. The only way to finish the course was to step on the one below with one foot while grabbing the smaller holds, swinging your body towards and away from the wall, and then jumping up to grab ahold of the top ledge with both hands. The only way to finish was to psych yourself up, believe that you could do it, and jump with the momentum with both arms straight up.

Lauren CulbertsonJune 28, 2018Lauren CulbertsonComment

#67: Anti-Pet Peeves

We started one of our Road Makers gatherings a couple years ago with each person revealing some of our pet peeves… Learning our pet peeves certainly helped humanize all of us in short order by celebrating and laughing at our irritations. It was truly fun mainly I suppose because the group we gathered that night was very willing to be self-effacing! We all could laugh at ourselves pretty darned well. Maybe it was just the magic of the moment.

CommunityJune 24, 2018CommunityComment

#66: A Different Kind of Leadership

Can we talk about LeBron?

I Just got back from another extensive trip throughout Europe. As a result, I only got to follow the NBA championships from afar. But, wow, LeBron James is simply a magnificent leader for the Cleveland Cavaliers. They had no (statistical anyway) business getting as far as they did – and it was incredible to watch.

Robert RoseJune 20, 2018Rob RoseComment

#65: Writing It Out

On the Community for Change "zoom" calls over the past year, we've brought medium-sized groups together over video to discuss huge topics in a small amount of time. We figured if we shoved "racism" or "post-election divisiveness" into a room for 40 minutes and shut the door with all of us staring at each other over video from all corners of the world, we might actually get some real conversation out of it. No more beating around the bush. We're all here. We all respect one another. So let's talk.

Brynne ThompsonJune 16, 2018Brynne ThompsonComment